Selecting Your Music

Choosing the right music is one of the most important decisions you make in planning your event. Music sets the tone for your whole event, from the first song to the last song. While the process can seem intimidating, with a little support it can be a wonderful opportunity for self-expression.

Here are some things to think about when planning your music:

• Start the selection process early. The best DJ's are booked well in advance. The busy wedding months in many metro areas in New York, New Jersey, Vermont, Connecticut, Delaware, Massachusetts are May through June and September through December. Also keep in mind that Saturday nights are more in demand than other times.

• Look for a DJ that can play styles to suit all your guests. Your event should reflect your tastes, but you want everyone to have a great time. Look over your guest list and think about what they might like to dance and listen to. Of course, your friends are very important, but you should consider your relatives and your parents' friends as well. Be sure to choose DJ's who can provide the variety of music you want. A great DJ will make each one of your guests feel that at some point in the evening the DJ was playing just for them.

• Look for DJ's who can serve as a resource about every aspect of the entertainment for your special day. Talk with the DJ about repertoire, volume levels and audience participation. Ask lots of questions and be specific about your expectations. Don't hesitate to ask for suggestions.

Your DJ should listen carefully to your ideas and concerns. It is their attention to detail that will ensure that your event will be all that you